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09 June 2005 @ 03:47 pm
And he never wondered what was right or wrong.. , he just knew.  
SO I just got off the phone with Katie.. and boy am I perterbed.  She starts talking about how I better be going to her party this weekend, on Saturday.  That is during Pride.  I hate the fact that she used the .. "My graduation comes once in a lifetime... and you are ditching it for PRIDE." 

1. I am volunteering.
2.  It's more fun than a party with your family.

This is not what made me mad.  It's the fact she started attacking gay people.  Saying it's a choice or that we all had fucked up childhoods.  My case she blames on the lack of a father figure.  I have a father figure.  His name is Scott, and he's my DAD.  I appreciate everything he has ever done for me, and for her to say that voids it all.  I don't think I can be friends with someone who disrespects me, my dad, and my family like that.  I told her countless times.. If I could.. I would be straight, but I think i enjoy actually being alive more than i do being depressed and pissed off at everyone.  Wouldn't you agree?  I am in "sin" and I know it's "wrong"  but I continue to do it.  That's hogwash.  Whatever happened to whomever be without sin throw the first gay bashing phrase. See I just can't stand peopel being this ignorant.  Yeah the bible speaks against it.  But what makes you so sure the bible is 100% accurate.  It was written by men.  Men are falliable.  And there is also the "Individual interpretation"  I believe when I read that book I am to interpret it the way I do because that is how GOD talks to me.  And that is how I am supposed to percieve it.  You know.. I realize  I don't want to go to Katie's party.  She doesn't even listen to anything I say.  I understand she doesn't agree with homosexuality, many of my friend's don't.  But don't tear it down every chance you get.  Seriously... like I said.. if I could even think about thinking about being straight, I would.   SOme people I swear..   GAWD!!
could be worse.. I could be... : annoyedannoyed
I am torturing my ears with: Rob Thomas - Lonely No More
Bambi the Love Goddessslayingyou on June 9th, 2005 02:00 pm (UTC)
Katie does tend to take the judgemental fire-and-brimstone approach. That and, her family? Scary! So I definitely would understand your choice.

..this isn't influenced by the fact that she hates me for no reason. I just think she's being unreasonable this time around. Wait? This time around..haha.
Adam John Venancio Bernal: Face Creamademu on June 9th, 2005 02:07 pm (UTC)
Yeah I asked her why she hates you and she doesn't even know..

I understand not eveyone apporves of homosexuality.. but like i said. I'd rather be full of life than already dead.. and we all like this Adam better than a dead Adam
Bambi the Love Goddessslayingyou on June 9th, 2005 02:11 pm (UTC)
Yes, yes we do.
Adam John Venancio Bernal: Record over me?ademu on June 9th, 2005 02:42 pm (UTC)
Plus her mom rocks.. her dad is scary.. I get uneasy around him.. AAAAAHHHH

Anywho.. I don't need friends like her.. right?
Hoperiotgurl06 on June 9th, 2005 02:15 pm (UTC)
I love you Adam!! Katie is just narrow-minded and doesn't know what she is talking about, just ignore her
......pyroska1 on June 9th, 2005 02:39 pm (UTC)
awww *huggles*

mann.. she has issues.
Adam John Venancio Bernal: Record over me?ademu on June 9th, 2005 02:43 pm (UTC)


what are you kdoing saturday.. come to pride..
......pyroska1 on June 9th, 2005 02:57 pm (UTC)
in chicagoland sat i think :x

did you like the jrock video? it's got a lil smething for everyone *nods*
Adam John Venancio Bernalademu on June 9th, 2005 02:59 pm (UTC)
drag Greg to Pride.. PWEESE
Gara_deadly_claris_ on June 9th, 2005 02:58 pm (UTC)

Adam John Venancio Bernal: Record over me?ademu on June 9th, 2005 03:00 pm (UTC)
Gara_deadly_claris_ on June 9th, 2005 03:03 pm (UTC)
hummmm i will think about it seeing if i can have the car over night or nope cuz mine is bout to die
Adam John Venancio Bernal: Face Creamademu on June 9th, 2005 03:09 pm (UTC)

Adriangundamheavyarms on June 9th, 2005 04:47 pm (UTC)
Gara_deadly_claris_ on June 9th, 2005 04:54 pm (UTC)
skinnypetermskinnypeterm on June 9th, 2005 04:43 pm (UTC)
Hey man, people skipped my graduation for a day of Summerfest.
skinnypetermskinnypeterm on June 9th, 2005 04:44 pm (UTC)
Oh, and thanks for, once again, bashing my religion.
Nyght Shaydnyghtshayd on June 10th, 2005 09:25 am (UTC)
I'm a devout christian, and I also happen to be gay. You're right he is bashing your religion (ie. a human doctrine using G-d's word as a basis for hate). Religion and faith are two very different things. FAITH in G-d, serving HIM above any other, and living a life of love and sanctity, these are what we as Christians are called to do...not sit in a church, bashing what G-d has declared His, while living a life of sin Monday through Saturday and calling themselves holier than thou. I'm not saying this is what you are doing; far from it. What I am saying is Ademu is gay, as are many other christians worldwide. So either you can do the G-dly thing, open you're heart and mind to the fact that perhaps mistranslation and bigotry has existed for centuries and people have made a religion of them, or you can take the approach and disassociate yourself from him, seeing as how, according to you, he's going to hell. We could look at this biblically, historically, or within socio-political context; as I don't have time at the moment to go into these issues, I'll simply keep you and ignorant men and women like you in my prayers, wishing you nothing but the blessings of Adonai, and hope that he may touch your heart with the truth and not what you have been lead to believe is truth. Much love, nyghtshayd.
Squeedgesqueedge on June 9th, 2005 05:04 pm (UTC)
I skipped Will's graduation party for a day at Pridefest last year....it was pretty funny.
Adriangundamheavyarms on June 9th, 2005 04:48 pm (UTC)
I don't know, I kind of wanted to go to her party. But the volunteering must come first.
Bambi the Love Goddessslayingyou on June 9th, 2005 04:50 pm (UTC)
I'll come in his place!! Gahahahahahaa... Maybe she can give me a sermon on how bad I am. What with harboring seething unwarranted hatred for someone who has done nothing against you. Oh wait that's her..

And to think this time last year *I* was the one who took her to Pride...then she started hating me again. Survey says she's ridiculous.
Stephanie: Ass Kickin' Timealkrea on June 9th, 2005 07:10 pm (UTC)
Perfect oppertunity for you to make a decision Adam!!!! (reguarding your last post) In my opinion, fuck her! What she said was outrageous, and how she thought that would sway you to ditch Pride and go to her party is beyond me. But do what you feel is right!
contrabasschic7 on June 9th, 2005 10:32 pm (UTC)
all i can say is i've learned never to take katie seriously...
Joe Habsjoehabs on June 9th, 2005 11:41 pm (UTC)
you don't need that shit. GOOOOO PRIDE!
britishbabe4u on June 10th, 2005 06:45 am (UTC)
i wanna go to pride
wiscodan530 on June 10th, 2005 09:03 am (UTC)
i thought you needed a comment....good stuff to write about in here...ppl need to know...really your friends dont need to take that attitude w/ you, i mean yeah not everybody will approve but if they think so highly of you as a friend, maybe they should just deal w/ it, shut up and accept you for who you are, and realize they cant change you...blah!~ oh well....*hugs*
Nyght Shaydnyghtshayd on June 10th, 2005 09:27 am (UTC)
Honey, drop her...you're christian, I'm a christian, I go to a church of gay christians. Just cut the bitch loose and have a nice day.
fallenangel0114 on June 27th, 2005 09:21 am (UTC)
yeay thats right adam.....adam stand strong!

I miss u